10 augusti 2026
6 min
Does your narcissistic spouse really love you—or are they using "love" to keep you stuck?
In this video, Dr. David Clarke explains 3 ways a narcissistic spouse may make you believe they love you: occasional love bombing, convincing apologies and promises to change, and periods of doing nice things for you.
The problem? According to Dr. Clarke, these behaviors don't represent lasting change. Once you respond with hope, forgiveness, or relief, the abusive pattern begins again.
In this video, you'll learn:
• 3 ways a narcissist can fake love
• Why love bombing can keep you emotionally attached
• How apologies and promises can pull you back in
• Why occasional acts of kindness can be so confusing
• How these patterns contribute to the trauma bond
• Why believing "he loves me, so he'll change" can keep you stuck
• Why recognizing the pattern is an important step toward freedom
If you're wondering whether you're married to a narcissist, need a plan to leave, want guidance through the divorce process, or need help rebuilding your life afterward, Dr. Clarke also offers phone advice sessions. Visit DavidClarkePhD.com for details.
RESOURCE MENTIONED:
"He's Not Changing" video series — designed to help you understand why your narcissistic spouse isn't changing and begin moving toward freedom. Find it at DavidClarkePhD.com.
Dr. Clarke is also offering a live workshop about the covert narcissist. Visit DavidClarkePhD.com and join the email list to receive announcements and details about upcoming workshops and resources.
It's time to stop confusing temporary displays of affection with lasting change—and start taking your own life, well-being, and future seriously.
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