Choice, Comfort, and Courage: Helping Children Visit a Loved One in the Burn Center

In this episode of Girls with Grafts, Rachel sits down with Abby Horton, MS, CCLS, a Certified Child Life Specialist with over a decade of experience supporting children and families through burn injuries and medical trauma. Abby's work spans pediatric burn care, inpatient rehabilitation, and critical care, and she brings that depth of experience to a conversation about one of the challenges families navigating a burn injury often face: how to prepare children for a visit to the burn center. 🏥 Drawing on her recent article in Journey Magazine, "Preparing Siblings and Children of Burn Survivors for a Burn Center Visit," Abby walks through why giving children a sense of choice and control matters so much, how caregivers can tell whether a child is ready to visit, and age-appropriate ways to talk about burn injuries and hospitalization. 🗣️ She also speaks candidly about the sibling experience—the fear, confusion, and guilt that can surface—along with the behavioral changes caregivers might see at home, from regression to withdrawal, and how to respond with patience rather than panic. Whether you're a parent, a sibling, or someone who simply wants to better support a family going through this, Abby offers grounded, compassionate guidance for helping the youngest members of a burn survivor's circle feel seen, prepared, and cared for. ❤️ #BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories ⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using hashtag #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors! Meet Our Guest Abby Horton, MS, CCLS, is a Certified Child Life Specialist with over a decade of experience supporting children and families impacted by burn injuries and medical trauma. Her work spans pediatric burn care, inpatient rehabilitation, and critical care, with a focus on trauma-informed, developmentally appropriate support, school re-entry, and family-centered programming. She continues to work in both hospital and community settings, including private practice, extending burn-informed care beyond the hospital. Links Read Abby’s article “Preparing Siblings and Children of Burn Survivors for a Burn Center Visit: A Child Life Perspective:” https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/preparing-siblings-and-children-of-burn-survivors-for-a-burn-center-visit Learn more and read Sara’s STEPS: https://www.phoenix-society.org/what-we-do/saras-steps Read “Supporting Siblings of Children with Burn Injuries:” https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/supporting-siblings-of-children-with-burn-injuries Read “More Than Just Camp: How Pediatric Burn Camps Foster Healing, Belonging, and Growth:” https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/more-than-just-camp-how-pediatric-burn-camps-foster-healing-belonging-and-growth Podcast Sponsor Today’s podcast is powered by the Pritzker Hageman Law Firm! The Pritzker Hageman burn injury legal team helps burn survivors and their loved ones pursue compensation and justice throughout the United States. Learn more at: LegalJourney.guide. Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.