Craving the Prize or the Chase?

We rarely desire things for what they truly are; we desire them for how easily they can slip away. Human psychology is hardwired to equate scarcity with value. When an object or person is securely ours, the mind settles into comfortable indifference. But introduce a threat of loss, or the void of absence, and suddenly urgency ignites. It is a trick of perspective. The intrinsic worth of the object hasn't changed at all , only the circumstances have. We are perpetually caught in a phant...