Are You Settling in Your Love Life? | Rewind

For years, when I signed copies of Get the Guy, I would write the same message: Never settle.

I still believe we should never settle for bad behavior, mistreatment, or a relationship that doesn't make us happy. But over time, I've come to see the idea of "settling" a little differently.

These days, we're surrounded by endless options. And while that sounds like a good thing, it can make us constantly wonder if there's someone better just around the corner. As a result, we end up overlooking genuinely great people because they don't meet every requirement on our list.

In this episode, I explore the difference between settling for someone and settling on someone—and why that distinction may be one of the most important keys to happiness in love.

If you've ever wondered whether your standards are helping you or hurting you, or whether you're waiting for a version of love that doesn't actually exist, this episode is for you.

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