#103: "What if I'm just not attracted to available people?"

You know unavailable men lead to heartache and yet, when someone kind, consistent, and genuinely interested shows up... nothing. No spark. No pull. Just a vague sense that something is missing.

In this episode, we're unpacking one of the most common and confusing blocks that comes up once women start to break their pattern with unavailable men.

We dig into what attraction actually is , why your nervous system learned to read anxiety and longing as love, and what's really happening underneath the surface when consistency feels boring or even unsafe.

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You know unavailable men lead to heartache and yet, when someone kind, consistent, and genuinely interested shows up... nothing. No spark. No pull. Just a vague sense that something is missing.

In this episode, we're unpacking one of the most common and confusing blocks that comes up once women start to break their pattern with unavailable men.

✨ ⁠⁠Want personalised support? Apply for private coaching HERE.⁠⁠

DM me on ⁠⁠INSTAGRAM⁠⁠

Check out other FREE resources ⁠⁠HERE⁠

#103: "What if I'm just not attracted to available people?"

#111: "How do I find a secure partner if I'm still anxious in dating?"

#110: Dating From Self-Worth

#109: "How Do I Stay Hopeful After So Much Disappointment in Dating?"

#108: How to Spot Passive Men In Dating Early

#107: "I Always Bring Things Up, He Never Feels Like Anything Is Enough" - How to Work With This Dynamic

#106: This Is The One Thing Most Women Miss in This Work

#105: "Is He Avoidant or Just Not That Into Me?"

#104: "What if my partner isn't doing this work?"

#102: How to Respond to DEFENSIVENESS

#101: Validation - What it actually is (& what it isn't)

#103: "What if I'm just not attracted to available people?"

#111: "How do I find a secure partner if I'm still anxious in dating?"

#110: Dating From Self-Worth

#109: "How Do I Stay Hopeful After So Much Disappointment in Dating?"

#108: How to Spot Passive Men In Dating Early

#107: "I Always Bring Things Up, He Never Feels Like Anything Is Enough" - How to Work With This Dynamic

#106: This Is The One Thing Most Women Miss in This Work

#105: "Is He Avoidant or Just Not That Into Me?"

#104: "What if my partner isn't doing this work?"

#102: How to Respond to DEFENSIVENESS

#101: Validation - What it actually is (& what it isn't)