#111: "How do I find a secure partner if I'm still anxious in dating?"

In this Dear Nath episode, I'll answer a question I get so often: if my picker is off because of attachment trauma, how do you actually find someone secure?

I'll breaks down what anxious attachment looks like in dating, and the real bar to aim for: Not "become secure," but heal enough to catch your own impulses and respond differently.

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20 augusti 2026
#110: Dating From Self-Worth
41 min
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12 augusti 2026
#109: "How Do I Stay Hopeful After So Much Disappointment in Dating?"
39 min
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6 augusti 2026
#108: How to Spot Passive Men In Dating Early
39 min
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29 juli 2026
#107: "I Always Bring Things Up, He Never Feels Like Anything Is Enough" - How to Work With This Dynamic
33 min
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22 juli 2026
#106: This Is The One Thing Most Women Miss in This Work
45 min
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15 juli 2026
#105: "Is He Avoidant or Just Not That Into Me?"
23 min
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8 juli 2026
#104: "What if my partner isn't doing this work?"
44 min
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1 juli 2026
#103: "What if I'm just not attracted to available people?"
51 min
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24 juni 2026
#102: How to Respond to DEFENSIVENESS
33 min
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10 juni 2026
#101: Validation - What it actually is (& what it isn't)
31 min
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#111: "How do I find a secure partner if I'm still anxious in dating?"

#110: Dating From Self-Worth

#109: "How Do I Stay Hopeful After So Much Disappointment in Dating?"

#108: How to Spot Passive Men In Dating Early

#107: "I Always Bring Things Up, He Never Feels Like Anything Is Enough" - How to Work With This Dynamic

#106: This Is The One Thing Most Women Miss in This Work

#105: "Is He Avoidant or Just Not That Into Me?"

#104: "What if my partner isn't doing this work?"

#103: "What if I'm just not attracted to available people?"

#102: How to Respond to DEFENSIVENESS

#101: Validation - What it actually is (& what it isn't)

#111: "How do I find a secure partner if I'm still anxious in dating?"

#110: Dating From Self-Worth

#109: "How Do I Stay Hopeful After So Much Disappointment in Dating?"

#108: How to Spot Passive Men In Dating Early

#107: "I Always Bring Things Up, He Never Feels Like Anything Is Enough" - How to Work With This Dynamic

#106: This Is The One Thing Most Women Miss in This Work

#105: "Is He Avoidant or Just Not That Into Me?"

#104: "What if my partner isn't doing this work?"

#103: "What if I'm just not attracted to available people?"

#102: How to Respond to DEFENSIVENESS

#101: Validation - What it actually is (& what it isn't)