"My First Threesome Went Viral": Ali Imperiale Tells All | Ep. 195 (Part 2)

Part two picks up right where we left off, and this time I get into the parts of ethical non-monogamy most people never actually see. Ali walks me through the sex-positive spaces she has spent years exploring: a private sex club in Montreal, an underground play party in Mexico, and a temple space in Europe that she calls her best experience yet.

We get into what actually happens inside these spaces: the consent rules, the safety measures, what it costs, and what it feels like to say no over and over again as a single woman in the room. Ali also answers my three rapid-fire questions, including her definition of sex, her best orgasm, and a fantasy she has never acted on.

This conversation is not about convincing anyone to try any of this. It is about showing you what these spaces actually look like once you strip away the assumptions, so you can decide for yourself what curiosity means to you.

In This Episode:

0:00 – Recap: Picking Up Where We Left Off

0:38 – Karen's Curiosity About Sex Parties

2:06 – Inside a Sex Club: Rules and Layout

5:33 – Consent Mechanics in the Orgy Room

6:15 – Ali and Her Partner's Night at the Club

8:54 – Her First Private Play Party in Mexico

12:21 – How Consent Gets Set at a Play Party

13:52 – The Temple Space: Her Best Experience Yet

17:03 – The Desire-Sharing Circle

18:09 – Is It All BDSM? And What It Costs

20:55 – Safety and Security at These Events

22:29 – Her Advice Before You Go

24:26 – Advice for Men: Handling Rejection

25:13 – You Don't Have to Do Anything

26:19 – Three Rapid-Fire Questions

29:06 – Where to Find Ali & Final Thoughts

About The Guest:

Ali is a content creator, sex education student, and host of a YouTube channel exploring sex, relationships, pleasure, intimacy, and alternative lifestyles. Through candid conversations, travel experiences, and educational content, she helps normalize discussions around sexuality while encouraging curiosity, critical thinking, and self-discovery. Her work focuses on reducing shame, challenging assumptions, and creating space for nuanced conversations about pleasure, relationships, and the many ways people choose to live and love.

Connect with Ali Imperiale:

Website: https://aliimperiale.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aliimperiale

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@aliimperiale

About The Host:

Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.

This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.

Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:

Email: karen@taboototruth.com

Website: https://www.taboototruth.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast

Substack: https://karenbigman.substack.com

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